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Some things you just take for granted

by Mary Anne

I hate to admit the fact that I was probably a little bit like the “spoiled rich kid” when I was younger. I really don’t like to think that I was, but the other alternative would be to admit to simply not being very observant of the world around me as I grew up. For example, I can remember many times hanging out at a swimming pool during the summer, and flirting with the lifeguards. Heck, I even dated a lifeguard for a while! The pool just seemed like a care-free place where chores and work did not exist.

So when my first hubby and I bought our first house together and had to go to the store and buy winterizing pool chemicals and replace the missing pool filters for the in-ground swimming pool that we fell in love with the entire idea of the work involved in keeping the swimming pool so nice and crisp and clean came as a bit of a shock to me! Fortunately my hubby said that he was happy to take care of all of the chores related to the pool because I was not going to be able to take care of the house and work my full-time job and take college courses and raise the kids AND deal with the upkeep of the swimming pool!


My son broke up with his girlfriend

by Mary Anne

My son called me from college last night.  He was sad because the girl he had been seeing has decided it would be wise to break off their romance.  He had seen it coming, because they were going to different colleges with a large distance between them.  When they first started dating they had talked about how this might happen, and they agreed that they would still be friends afterwards.  But that is harder to actually DO than SAY!

So, we talked about some different strategies on surviving the break up.  We talked about how he needed to take some time to heal emotionally, and avoid any kind of rebound romance.


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